my $create = $self->to_field($col, 'foreign_inputs', $args);
$create->{'__select_or_create__'} =
$self->to_field('__select_or_create__',{ name => '__select_or_create__' , value => 1 } );
my $create = $self->to_field($col, 'foreign_inputs', $args);
$create->{'__select_or_create__'} =
$self->to_field('__select_or_create__',{ name => '__select_or_create__' , value => 1 } );